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When Teri asked:
"Why did my baby die? And why would a good, kind
loving God allow a baby to die?"
Janith answered:
This special baby gave you a gift like no other. I may tell
you the God of kind, loving Presence has not allowed or
disallowed this. It is something you came in to do, with the
consent of your Spirit as well as the consent of this baby's
Spirit and the rest of the family members involved.
Teri asked then:
"Why did my first experience with death have to be my
son?"
Janith answered:
It did not have to be. You chose it to be, for the highest
outcome of your life and purpose. It is not that you are
desensitized after you have gone through many different death
experiences, but the first one has the most impact on your life.
So it was important for the lessons to be learned well that it
was planned in this way.
When Teri asked:
"How can we begin to trust again?"
Janith answered:
Slowly. One step at a time. Gently. Do not push yourself for
trust comes as the waves to the shore. Not as you push, but as
you allow.
Teri asked:
"Is my baby safe and happy?"
Janith said:
Oh, yes. Happiness is something that is an appropriate word
for the other realms of consciousness, much more so than earth. I
must say that all the babies who die of this "SIDS" as
you call it, are peaceful high spirits of a wise nature. And when
they transcend this lifetime on earth they return to their place
of greatness.
I asked then:
"Where do we go when we die?"
Janith answered:
Different ones go to different places. It depends on your
level of consciousness, your past lives and your future lives.
I asked:
"Did the baby feel any pain?"
Janith answered:
Pain was not in purpose for the lessons to be learned for any
of these babies, that is why they chose to go in such a quick and
easy fashion. There is no purpose for pain in this case.
Teri asked:
"Is there a special connection between a mother and a
child before the age of two?"
Janith said:
If we are asking if this type of loss takes a different from
than others because of the connection, I may say yes. This
connection is one of twin spirits. The parent will have a feeling
of death as well as the child, for there is no separateness yet.
That is why you will get such questions as, "Why
am I still here when I know I have died?" This
feeling doesn't make sense to the mother....You will have an
earthbound soul who is supposed to be....
Gordon asked:
"How can I stop the missing from hurting so bad?"
Janith answered:
It is important to remember that the missing is on the
physical plane. If you can reach into other planes of
consciousness, you will not have that missing as greatly. It is
quite important to remember that once "out of body"
doesn't mean "does not exist." Your son is just out of
body. That means you need to get out of body in order to touch,
to reach, to feel and stop the missing with the connection. You
must be able to meditate to do this. Or it can be done in dream
state.
It is important that those on earth remember where they came from
originally. It is important to remember that the only loss,
truly, that anyone on earth has, is the loss of their connection
with Spirit. This is the death experience. When I speak with you
about the earthbound soul who is supposed to be, I am not
speaking in jest. Those who have experienced death of self as
personality are confused and are walking around looking for their
Spirits. It is important to help them connect, in whatever way,
to their Spirit, for that is where the healing can begin. It is
quite important to realize that separation from Spirit causes
this type of feeling or grief reaction. Once they can connect
again or get the One consciousness back, they will begin to heal
on their own.
Teri asked then:
How do I stop being afraid of everything now that I don't
understand the reason for anything?
Janith answered:
You do not stop being afraid. You "be" with your
fear. Try to understand your fear. Take your fear to the worst
end and then come back again. You must go on a journey before you
can come home again.
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